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summer fun!

summer is around the corner and i am filling my calendar with as many activities as possible.

june: governor’s ball! binzer’s bridal shower upstate and bachelorette party on fire island.

july: trip to portland, oregon to visit krista. and jeremiah. bestie joining me in our 30s, muhaha.

august: my dear ex-work spouse and -co-blogger on the natterist (binzer) is getting married!

september: annual pilgrimage to pemaquid, maine + reunification with andrew.

peppered with summer birthdays, concerts, camping, and much outdoor drinking. happiness! :)

maine love

alright… here are some photos i’ve been sitting on. took them when we went through some of the old photo albums during thanksgiving break up in maine.

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framed wedding invitation

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look at that kiss! hehe

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beautiful bride

so pretty! my instagrams of the photos don’t do them justice.
i hope for a marriage like theirs one day. <3

a psalm of life – henry wadsworth longfellow

Tell me not in mournful numbers,
Life is but an empty dream!
For the soul is dead that slumbers,
And things are not what they seem.

Life is real! Life is earnest!
And the grave is not its goal;
Dust thou are, to dust thou returnest,
Was not spoken of the soul.

Not enjoyment, and not sorrow,
Is our destined end or way;
But to act, that each tomorrow
Find us farther than today.

Art is long, and Time is fleeting,
And our hearts, though stout and brave,
Still, like muffled drums, are beating
Funeral marches to the grave.

In the world’s broad field of battle,
In the bivouac of Life,
Be not like dumb, driven cattle!
Be a hero in the strife!

Trust no Future, howe’er pleasant!
Let the dead Past bury its dead!
Act, – act in the living Present!
Heart within, and God o’erhead!

Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sand of time;

Footprints, that perhaps another,
Sailing o’er life’s solemn main,
A forlorn and shipwrecked brother,
Seeing, shall take heart again.

Let us then be up and doing, 
With a heart for any fate; 
Still achieving, still pursuing, 
Learn to labor and to wait. 

i blame pinterest…

…for not blogging as much. it’s just so much faster. oh, and my job. giving me heartburn.

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oh my goodness, i’ve turned old!

scary how the time flies.

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my 2012 resolutions

i love new years. and i love making new year’s resolutions. so here are my 2012 resolutions -

1. quit the gym. give to charity. yes, you read correctly. i donate money to nysc monthly and it is time to stop. instead, i’ll make more of an effort to donate to actual charities. this nifty little website is helping me get started – [52x52.org]

2. eat less carnivorously, more healthy. i’ve recently become inspired by some of the people around me to eat less meat and make more health-conscious decisions about food. and i’m about to turn 30 this year so a little effort to reverse age couldn’t hurt… [no meat, no dairy, no problem]

3. go on an information diet? in efforts to absorb as much information as possible, i’ve become a scanner. as in i scan the headlines but rarely bother to dive in-depth. i’m not sure if this is such a terrible thing so it’s a question mark. i’m saying this as i subscribe to yet another rss feed… but i really ought to spend less time surfing needlessly on facebook. too frequently i end up learning something better left unknown.

4. productively, creatively. this one is now a resolution repeat three years in a row. when i’m home, sitting on the couch and mindlessly watching netflix/hulu or surfing the web is just too easy of a habit. my mind wants to be more productive with projects but my lazy ass keeps winning. i think this is going to be a life-long battle. [how to lead a creative life]

5. show love better. i come from a a family that practices tough love. i can probably count the times my mom has told me she loves me with two hands. and you can forget about dad, his love is expressed through cash. so instead, mom shows her love by constantly criticizing my sister and i because somehow this translates into “i’m telling you this because i care.” i know they both deeply love me but that is not how i want to live my life and i’m afraid of becoming more like them as time passes. i am fighting very hard to avoid this.

welp, so that’s that. and if that got boring and you skipped down to this part, check out this site for other people’s simplified resolutions – [toresolveproject.com]. happy new year!

blowing bubbles from your necklace

been really busy with moving and i still have to unload all the photos i took in maine but so far i’ve had no luck finding the camera cord. have a bit more unpacking left to do… but now i’m on to the fun part(?) of spending money buying things for the new abode, including another le creuset piece to add to my collection! so i definitely can’t afford this necklace but how adorable!

£300.00 @ [claireenglish.com]

all-time high search term that brings you to my blog

is the term “mcgangbang.”

second is “lumberjack costume.”

i should blog more.

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say yes to the ring!

this dior ring has been on my wishlist ever since it came out but i can’t find it anywhere. maybe it’s time to give up and find a “poor man’s replacement” such as this one on [etsy] -

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